As-Shafi’ee (rahimahullaah) said, “Whoever spreads gossip for you spreads gossip against you. Whoever relates tales to you will tell tales about you. Whoever when you please him says about you what is not in you, when you anger him will say about you what is not in you.”
Realize this brother and clear your inner self from the love of this world and running after it. Increase in the remembrance of Allaah the Most High. When the purification of your inside is completed then Allaah the Most High will make you speak with wisdom and you will become the wise man of your time.