Forgetting The Unpleasant Things That Have Passed

Among the necessary causes of happiness and cessation of grief and worry, is striving to remove the things that bring about grief, and acquire those that bring about happiness. This is achieved by forgetting the unpleasant things that have passed and he has no power to bring them back, and knowing that occupying his mind with them is meaningless; in fact it is stupidity, bordering and lunacy. Therefore he has to struggle with his mind not to think of them. He should also struggle with his mind not to worry over the future, not to pay attention to illusions of poverty, fear or other unpleasant things he is imagining will descend on him in the future. He should know that nobody knows what will happen in the future, whether good or evil, or pleasure or pain; this is in the Hands of Allaah alone. The slave has no control over it. His only due is to struggle to accomplish what will benefit him in the future, and ward off harm from him. He should also know that when the slave turns his mind away from worrying over the future in his affairs, and relies on his Lord for its betterment, and is satisfied that his Lord will do that for him, when he does all that, his heart will be tranquil, and his condition will be good, and his worries and anxieties will vanish.

Among the most beneficial things to do concerning the future of one’s affair is to be saying the prayer that the Prophet  (sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallaam) used to say:

“O Allaah! Make my religion, which is my strength and invincibility, good for me; and make my world, wherein is my livelihood, good for me; and make my hereafter, which is my final abode ,good for me. And make my living an increase for me in all that is good, and make my death a repose for me from every ill.” (Muslim)

And also his saying:

“O Allaah! It is Your mercy that I have hope in,so do not leave me to myself even for the blink of an eye, and make good my affairs, all of them; there is no god worthy of being worshipped but You.” (Abu Dawud reported it, with a sound chain of transmission).

If the slaves says this du’a, which entails seeking the betterment of his future both in terms of his religion and his worldly affairs, if he says that with a mindful and aware heart, and a true and sincere intention, coupled with an earnest struggle to achieve it, Allaah will definitely materialize for him what he asked for and had hope in and struggled to achieve. As a result of this, his worry will change to happiness and delight.


[Transcribed from: Useful Ways Of Leading A Happy Life, Chapter 4, Pages 23-25|by: Shaykh Abdur-Rahman bin Nasir As-Sa’di (rahimahullaah)|Translated by: Bashir Aliyu Umar|Printed by: The Ministry of Islamic Affairs, Endowments, Da`wah and Guidance|Supervised by: The Ministry’s Deputyship for Printing and Publishing Affairs]
Related Posts:
Chapter One: Eemaan and Righteous Deeds
Chapter Two: Occupying Oneself With Some Activity Or Useful Knowledge
Chapter Three: Remembering Allaah Much
Chaper Six: Firmness Of The Heart And Reliance On Allaah

About Umm Abdulazeez

"I am a Muslim who is upon the Qur'aan and the Sunnah and upon the methodology of the Salaf As-Saalih (Pious Predecessors). And that can be said in short by saying, 'I am a Salafee' " [Shaykh Al-Albaanee رحمه الله] ________ Sufyaan Ath-Thawree (rahimahullaah) said: “Indeed knowledge should only be learned for the purpose of fearing Allaah. Indeed, knowledge has been given virtue over other than it because with it Allaah is feared.” [Jaam'i Bayaan al-'Ilm wa Fadlihi by Imaam Ibn Abdil-Barr (rahimahullaah)]
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4 Responses to Forgetting The Unpleasant Things That Have Passed

  1. justaukhti says:

    Reblogged this on justaukhti.

  2. Jazakillahu khairan sis :)

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